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Unfortunately, in the K-12 school years, bullying is more common than you would think. First, an insult isn’t determined by what is said or done or the bully’s intention, but by how it makes the recipient feel. Sometimes it’s even the lack of words that hurts the most; being ignored, excluded and avoided is crushing to one’s self-esteem. If you feel insulted or hurt by someone, then you have a right to ask that person to stop the offending behavior. If that person persists, then that’s bullying.<\/p>\n
It doesn’t matter specifically what’s said or done because people have different worldviews and different tolerances. People also change: some things that offended me when I was a kid are now jokes to me and some jokes I used to laugh at are now objectionable.<\/p>\n
It’s a fine line between a raucous joke and a heinous insult.<\/p>\n
Some common ways Asian Americans are bullied,<\/p>\n
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- people say “Ching chong kang kua ji ji chong” (gibberish) and ask you what it means<\/li>\n
- people tell you to go back to China\/Japan\/Korea\/Vietnam\/etc<\/li>\n
- people call you “Chink” or “Jap”<\/li>\n
- people call you “Squinty eyes”; they take their fingers and stretch their eyelids sideways<\/li>\n
- people call you short, weak and unathletic<\/li>\n
- people call you four-eyes and brainiac<\/li>\n
- people spread rumors that you eat dogs and cats and animal genitalia<\/li>\n
- people ask to see you perform karate<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
And then there’s the standard methods that any child, regardless of ethnicity, could face at school; people push you, trip you, step on your shoes, knock your lunch onto the floor, draw on your notebooks, steal your pens and books. Outside of school, bullying can take of form of graffiti on your Facebook, Twitter, etc, or persistent insults and threats sent in text messages.<\/p>\n
Bullying generally becomes less of a problem in college. The destructive power of bullying is compounded in the K-12 school years because students can’t escape the bullies at school. But there are so many people in college that usually the only people you see regularly are your friends, some of your classmates and some of the people in your residence hall. But in large lectures, hardly anybody knows anybody else’s name, so it’s hard for bullies to target anybody. If a roommate or somebody in your dorm is bothering you, then tell the Resident Assistant. Tell her or him about each incident and if the situation is severe enough, ask to transfer to a different room. Campuses usually have emergency housing for students facing extenuating circumstances.<\/p>\n
Whoever popularized, “Stick and stones can break my bones, but words can never hurt me,” was spreading a comforting lie. All forms of bullying hurt. Sometimes they hurt so much that they can manifest into physical illnesses.<\/p>\n
When I was in school, I did my best to avoid being bullied by not reacting to their actions. I never fought back, but I cultivated an air of yeah-shrug-whatever. If bullying isn’t exciting for the bullies, usually they stop targeting you.<\/p>\n
If you’re being bullied, don’t endure it alone, don’t blame everybody. Distinguish between your friends and your foes and tell your friends what’s bothering you. They’ll defend and help you fight (figuratively). It helps to know that despite what some strangers may say, these friends like you just the same. They still want to hang out with you, chat with you and laugh with you.<\/p>\n
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EDIT:
\nI’ve noticed that some people may have misunderstood the scope of this answer. I should clarify that this is not<\/i> how most Asians students are treated in school. What I’ve described is some of the bullying behavior that is common if<\/i> Asians students are bullied in America.<\/p>\nI also want to explain what I mean by, “bullying is more common than you would think.” That’s actually a way of saying that bullying is more common than I<\/i> would think. That’s because American parents and teachers treat bullying as a serious detriment to a student’s education. It’s not<\/i> just a phase of growing up; it’s unacceptable behavior in school. As students, we were indoctrinated from an early age about the consequences of such behavior; the message was also reinforced outside of school – even in our Saturday morning cartoons.<\/p>\n
That’s why I’m surprised that, growing up, I witnessed so much bullying despite how saturated we were in the ideologies of “Treat others as you would like to be treated,” and “If you have nothing nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” Perhaps the real lesson is that the American education system could look for more effective ways to teach children not to bully others.<\/p>\n
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As always, if you have the courage and patience to translate this into Chinese, then go for it! =P<\/p>\n
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\n\u4f5c\u8005\u662fY-combinator\u7684co-founder Paul Graham\uff0c\u6709\u70b9\u793e\u4f1a\u5b66\u89c6\u89d2\u7684\u610f\u601d\u3002<\/p>\n\u6211\u662f\u5927\u5b66\u624d\u51fa\u56fd\u7684\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u548c\u51e0\u4e2a\u7f8e\u56fd\u6559\u6388\u4ea4\u6d41\u8fc7\u9ad8\u4e2d\u751f\u6b3a\u8d1f\u4eba\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u3002<\/p>\n
\u4e00\u6b21\u662f\u548c\u4e00\u4e2aEnglish Professor\u804a\u4ed6\u7ed9\u4e00\u4e2a\u5b66\u751f\u6539\u7533\u8bf7PhD\u7684personal statement\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u4ed6\u8bf4\uff1a<\/p>\n
“So her essay is mainly about: When I was in middle school, nobody wanna talk to me, so I stayed alone and read Jane Austen. When I was in High school, nobody wanna talk to me, so I stayed alone and read Jane Austen. When I was in college, nobody wanna talk to me, so I stayed alone and read Jane Austen. Now I wanna become a PhD in Jane Austen”<\/p>\n
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\n“Nobody talked to us in high school! <\/b>But what makes you yourself? blah blah…”<\/p>\n\u540e \u6765\u4ed6\u8bf4\u4ed6\u548c\u4ed6\u7684\u5f88\u591a\u5b66\u4e60\u597d\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u5728\u9ad8\u4e2d\u90fd\u4f1a\u88ab\u5927\u591a\u6570\u540c\u5b66\u6b3a\u8d1f\uff0c\u800c\u5927\u591a\u6570\u540c\u5b66\u8ffd\u6367\u7684\u5374\u90fd\u662f\u9ad8\u4e2d\u7684\u4f53\u80b2\u660e\u661f\u2014\u2014\u867d\u7136\u4ed6\u4eec\u5927\u591a\u6570\u7684\u4f53\u80b2\u751f\u6daf\u4e5f\u90fd\u53ea\u80fd\u5230\u9ad8\u4e2d\u4e3a\u6b62\u3002 \u6709\u4e0d\u5c11\u5bf9\u77e5\u8bc6\u70ed\u7231\u7684\u201c\u4e66\u5446\u5b50\u201d\u5728\u9ad8\u4e2d\u5b8c\u5168\u662f\u9760\u5c0f\u8bf4\u3001\u5199\u4f5c\u3001\u620f\u5267\u961f\u6216\u662f\u53c2\u52a0\u4ea4\u54cd\u4e50\u56e2\u4f5c\u4e3a\u7cbe\u795e\u652f\u67f1\u624d\u6d3b\u4e0b\u6765\u7684\uff0c\u201c\u4e0d\u7136\u5f88\u591a\u4eba\u771f\u7684\u4f1a\u81ea\u6740\u201d\u3002\u6211\u7684\u51e0\u4e2a\u6559\u6388\uff08\u56e0\u4e3a \u4e0d\u662f\u793e\u4f1a\u5b66\u6559\u6388\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u5e76\u975e\u4e13\u4e1a\u89c1\u89e3\uff09\u5bf9\u8fd9\u79cd\u884c\u4e3a\u7684\u52a8\u56e0\u5f52\u7ed3\u4e3a\uff1a\u8fd9\u4e9b\u5b69\u5b50\u6709\u4e00\u79cd\u4eba\u7c7b\u5929\u751f\u7684\u55c5\u89c9\uff0c\u77e5\u9053\u8fd9\u4e9b\u201c\u4e66\u5446\u5b50\u201d\u4e4b\u540e\u4f1a\u6bd4\u81ea\u5df1\u6210\u529f\uff0c\u6210\u4e3a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u8001\u677f\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5 \u5728\u9ad8\u4e2d\u7684\u65f6\u5019\u4f1a\u51fa\u4e8e\u672c\u80fd\u5730\u6b3a\u8d1f\u597d\u5b66\u751f\u3002
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